My husband is 100 days clean and gung ho in recovery
He does like 5 meetings, book study, outpatient..sponsor...etc and is always throwing recovery concepts around
I can relate to this. My AXGF, in her pink cloud days, was doing a lot of this stuff. But in the end, it was just for show. There was no change in her behavior, or her attitudes. An addict not using but not in recovery is a very dangerous person. Case in point:
Holy crap... just checked phone... he just relapsed... You were all right..
There's a lot of good input in this thread. Now's the time to use your wise mind and to do what is necessary to protect yourself.
Be safe,
ZoSo