Deep breath.
I'm no expert but it sounds to me like he is either using or very close to it.
Honey, he is still operating like an addict.
I know there were many times I left my xa house saying to myself, what just happened here.
Do you have support????
You asked if this was normal for early recovery, yes, it's normal, chaos is normal with addicts.
I do think he has a good smoke screen going, there are drugs that can't be detected in drug tests. I think he;s using.