Old 09-05-2012, 05:58 PM
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Impurrfect
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((oneday)) - Sounds to me like he's talking the talk but not walking the walk. I'm a recovering crackhead and the LAST people I'd want to be around are people who still use, even after 5-1/2 years in recovery. He's lied to you, he got an escort or was calling his dealer?

Recovery involves changing one's behavior, changing the people/places/things you associate with your DOC (drug of choice).

I don't know how early he is in recovery, but I can tell you that from day one, I was holding myself accountable and trying to prove to my loved ones that they COULD trust me and it still took a few months before they did.

I could be wrong, but it sounds like he's using "recovery speak" without actually doing the work that is involved in recovery.

Focus on you, sweetie, and what you want out of life.

Hugs and prayers,

Amy
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