SlimSlim,
"As for feeling violated, you were violated. A man who takes advantage of a very drunk woman is violating her."
You know that is a tough one, SlimSlim. Should we blame the man in this case? IDK. Maybe he was drunk off his ass too and has regrets, or doesn't remember a damn thing. I do not assume that he knew 100% what he was doing. I cannot judge that. Maybe he knew full well and has no moral character. We can't really know for sure if he violated a woman.