Originally Posted by
LoveMeNot 
I never thought it would be so hard, lol. The good thing is - she wanted her independence as I was starting Alanon and joined SR. Both made it a lot easier.
I'm imagine it's comforting and reassuring to have support and resources available during this transition; smart mom, you are, for seeking those.
I remember that when in high school, my daughter was rather embarrassed to have me around and just about barely "tolerated me";
a couple of years down the road, once well into college and life on her own, she was seeking out mom, wanting to chat and get together. It was a pleasant turn of events and I am thankful.