Originally Posted by
owathu 
And you're still on it, and thinking about having a discussion with the rollercoaster itself about how it needs to stop being a rollercoaster.
*snort*
The rollercoaster can be whatever it wants. If it still needs to be a rollercoaster, then I don't need to ride it.
I'm not changing anyone, I'm laying out what I need. If he can't meet those needs, then I don't stay.
I have learned from this site that I need to be pretty specific about what I need, and the consequences if him not meeting those, but after that, *shrug* the ball's in his court. Show me that you are this grown up person I'm expecting, or call me if/when you get to that stage.
I'm listening guys. Much of what you're saying doesn't apply to me, but I do recognize that it very probably applies to him. There's lots of stuff (flags maybe) that I wouldn't know to be aware of had you all not taken the time to explain it to me.
Thank you for being so willing to help a complete stranger.
