When I stopped drinking alcohol I found another drink I love, Mountain Dew. At my wedding I made sure I had plenty of my drink around. When it came time for the toast I did it with Mountain Dew. I have been to weddings where there wasn't any alcohol. It's your wedding, you have that choice.
Congrats on the 37 days. Are you in any type of program? Have you just stop drinking? I had to change my way of life to stay sober.