Sometimes when people say they're going for a couple of drinks they don't actually mean alcoholic ones. I only say this because I remember quite a few times going out for 'drinks' with people when I would be the only one actually drinking! I remember it irritating the hell out of me then. How about having a few mocktails instead? You can still have a 'couple'. You'll still be normal. Tbh we have a better chance of coming off as 'normal' if we don't drink. Congrats on your upcoming wedding
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