Originally Posted by
Randy32 
thank you again for all the feed back everyone..He just wrote me the following:
"I know I have to stop… I know I can't control it now even when I'm feeling good… Just makes me sad to know that you will leave me when I need you most.. If I had cancer, would you leave me because it was bringing you down? What I have is an illness but can be looked after… But you're just throwing me away
The fact that you just blocked me from your life when we were still technically boyfriends really is not cool… Just leaving me hanging
Anyways, thanks for leaving me when I need you most Randy.. You don't have any love for me because you don't leave somebody who needs your help.
One day when I'm better and doing so well, you will look back and regret this.
All the best and good luck with everything in the future
Ciao"
thoughts?
He is guilt-tripping and manipulating you. You need to refuse it. Stop reading his emails and texts or you are going to get sucked back in. Get smart about their manipulation tactics. Here's a link to a thread that I started when I found a good source of information about this:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ipulation.html
And another:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ipulation.html