http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-quackers.html
sure there is a way you can live with an alcoholic...^^but why not read from the experts who HAVE lived or living with an active alcoholic now in their lives..
u do know you have a choice to be in a healthy relationship because your worthy of that right?
maybe Melody Beatties "Co dependent No More" may be a good read for you...