Originally Posted by
Randy32 
thank you again for all the feed back everyone..He just wrote me the following:
"I know I have to stop… I know I can't control it now even when I'm feeling good… Just makes me sad to know that you will leave me when I need you most.. If I had cancer, would you leave me because it was bringing you down? What I have is an illness but can be looked after… But you're just throwing me away
The fact that you just blocked me from your life when we were still technically boyfriends really is not cool… Just leaving me hanging
Anyways, thanks for leaving me when I need you most Randy.. You don't have any love for me because you don't leave somebody who needs your help.
One day when I'm better and doing so well, you will look back and regret this.
All the best and good luck with everything in the future
Ciao"
thoughts?
Yes... RUN! Talk about throwing guilt, manipulation, control, and a whole bunch of other bad stuff your way. For Pete's sake, that was a load of BS, I hope you know that. He obviously doesn't care one whip about your feelings, Randy.
You're young, you've got a good job and a great future ahead of you; live for you and what you want out of life - he's not the only guy out there.
There is a famous saying around here: Unacceptable behaviour is unacceptable.
Be strong, and best of luck to you! You deserve better