Originally Posted by
BobbyJ 
Amend's is huge in anyone's recovery- I believe in them 210% - He said, he would never want to hurt the kid's again, and making amend's/contacting them, would hurt them. So he stays away from them......Another "Lame" excuse in my eye's, but it's his street to sweep, not mine...
yes and yes. It is a lame excuse (I got a lot of lame excuses too, mostly about how I wouldn't allow him to make amends to the girls)
But it is his side of the street.
I made lots of amends to my girls for introducing this into their lives. I still say sorry on occasion, even when they tell me to stop saying it!