"Yes, and this was the reason why I called his psychiatrist last fall to 'tell on him' and ask if his behavior was normal. He saw it as me trying to control him and decided to retaliate and drink even more even after the psych. " (Lizatola)
XA did the exact same thing when he felt I was a threat to "His control". I was the recipient of " I'll show you !!!"
But I also now realize I was wasting my time and energy, ( and giving myself a huge migraine) in trying to "help" him sort out his troubled life.
What an effed up mess this disease truly is.
Hugs to you Liz.