I'm so sorry that your vacation ended this way. Ya know, earilier I posted that I could not walk away from my family - that is only partly true. Funny how the mind works. When I posted I was thinking about my current relationships which are strong and good.
I neglected to recall the most difficult part of my history. I like to leave it shoved into the recesses somewhere. Long ago, I had to walk away from my dad. I had to. It was gut retching. I grew up as daddy's little girl. He died an alcoholic. That story will have to wait for some other day - but for now, I get it, and you have to do what you have to do.
Sending many prayers...