Ever feel like a frog?
You all know the story of a frog in a pot of water? If you slowly raise the temperature on the stove, the water will eventually boil and the frog will croak (no pun intended) However, if you boil the water first and then put the frog in, it will jump out to safety. I think I am a frog that has been in the pot for awhile. If I were to look at what my marriage as the starting point of a relationship and where it is right now, there is no way that I would stick my toe in to test the water.
grizz