I can't imagine getting "remarried" or "undoing" the legal separation, no freaking way. But having a relationship and being together, maybe?
Yeah, I was at that point as well, thinking about what sort of relationship I could have and still feel safe. What woke me up was I couldn't think of any. We even went on a couple of dates but I found when I was around her, even when she was being nice, I still felt very tense. It got me thinking, is this even worth it?
Still, I gave it some time and about 3 months later filed for divorce.
Your friend,