Originally Posted by
Lulu39 
The "good behaviour" and the fact he hasn't called me a f@#$en' bitch for a few days has me feeling wary.
Hi Lulu
My own AH is very good at this good behaviour thing when it suits him (well decreasingly good, but he still tries it). He will keep things under wraps for a day, or a few days, and then be like "But I'm doing so well". It's all part of the cunning behaviour, the manipulation, the emotional blackmail. Funnily enough I almost fell for it as recently as last night. Not that it would change my mind about loving him or leaving him, but I did feel sorry for him for a while.
Can you get a definite date from him where he guarantees he will be gone? Apologies if you've referred to this previously - my mind is a muddle these days. Otherwise it's quite possible he will keep stalling.
I understand the temptation to check email/texts/calls - I did it myself this week. Sometimes it feels like the only way we can actually get the truth, and when you are hoping that someone is going to give you peace sometimes you need the truth. Not that I'm saying it's the right thing to do - I know it's not - but I do understand.
Fingers crossed for you it will all work out in the next few days.
Adventure x