huh. just spoke to (R?)AH who has been in rehab almost 2 months. Had a "real" conversation for the first time. I asked if he had a neuropsych evaluation yet (had a head injury last year on top of the alc abuse) and he said he was dx with narcissistic personality disorder! not that I already didn't know that, but interesting that I was just reading this thread today. He does sound like he is making progress. I still doubt that I will live with him again.