Originally Posted by jojo
Gracey =
Why exactly do you stay married to this man? Do you love him? Do you need him? Does he make you happy? Is he a good husband? Is he a good parent? Do you look forward to coming hom to him everyday? Does he make you feel good? Does he treat your children well and make them feel loved? Have you figured out why you stay with him? Please answer these questions for yourself. After you answer each and every one of them you should be able to figure out what you want and need to do for yourself and for your kids.
Big hugs and prayers for you as you decide what you want to do.
Jo
JOJO
I agre so much with you.
Everyone here should ask themselfs the same things.
After detatching from my AH for a few years, I asked myself the same questoins and decided it was time to ask him to leave. I just could not face retiring in my older years with an AH
Thanks for being so truthfull with your post.