Suki is right!
No contact is not punishment or revenge,
it is triage for saving one's self from the
inevitably escalating and worsening miasma
that is the core truth of active addiction.
No contact with me had a high correlation
to my uptake of SR wisdom.It was illogical to
disregard so much hard earned experience in
favor of what I wanted to believe.
Nobody here tried to scam me, sell me
anything, etc.They don't even know me beyond
a pseudonym.
There are so many cynics.But just about the best
poster here goes by the handle 'cynical'----and is
anything BUT.These people display the truest of
goodwill,they share their hurt so that it may be
avoided in other lives.
I could not pay disrespect to their collective
wisdom .They gave me their best advice and I followed
it.....no contact.
To separate from that caustic drama was the best
thing I ever did.