Originally Posted by
sweetteewalls 
Just don't understand how someone you give so much to leaves you so easily.
I have learned in my journey that every single thing that bothers me about others gives me a small clue of something I need to work on
within.
Do you feel that when you "give so much," someone then owes you something? Love, loyalty, devotion? Do you give to others in order to get something back? These are not questions that need be answered on the forum, but just some examples of questions I (with the help of my therapist) needed to ask myself when I was feeling abandoned. As a result of looking within, rather than trying to figure him out, I learned that I was setting myself up to be hurt.
L