hi lost0311, i share the same sentiments...although i really have to hear/read one success story, but somehow i feel the same...ive been good to my xabf the times we are together, i know the 3 cs, i didnt cause it, cant control it and wont cure it...or him, but somehow now, im guessing, pressuming, thinking that he really is having a better life with his new gf...an alcoholic...somehow he doesnt miss work, pay his bills, and gets to party whenever he wants...
i miss him too, i pray everyday for him, for me, for his mom and dad and for everyone in this community, addiction really did hurt all of us and we are all just taking it one day at a time