Originally Posted by
hydrogirl 
Oh, and never, ever be anywhere near him without at least an audio recording device going.
This! Video if possible strategically placed in your car. If you had a recording of the exchange in the parking lot, you wouldn't have been fearful of calling the police. Arm yourslef next time. Stack the cards against him. He will hang himself (figuratively) soon enough if you do. Sitck to your boundaries. You did good.