I love that quote!! XABF called me resentful today and it really hurt my feelings, but I like the perspective above on being more appreciative. I have a lot of blessings my life and am letting the pain of this breakup keep me in a negative frame of mind. I think what he sees as "resentment" is really just anger, but no matter what emotion it is, it will be toxic in the long run and I need to let it go. I've enjoyed reading some of your posts today, as xABF is also in recovery. I had hopes that someday we'd reunite, but he's been acting out in ways that make me unsure he's truly a man I want to be with. I admire you for being so clear on your boundaries with RAH while also working so hard on self improvement.