I'm praying for you and your girls, wtbh. That is so disgusting and infuriating. I, too, hope you'll have some suggestions from your attorney. He can't get away with terrorizing and humiliating you that way, especially with children witnessing everything. I am just so sorry, and will be thinking of you and hoping a big change in your life will be forthcoming.
I'm glad you came here to talk about it - you have so many people on your side, who wish they could help. Prayers going up.