Best friend in trouble :(
My best friend of 20 years..is in denial about her addiction to drugs/alcohol. In the past few years she has been quickly turning into someone I don't even know. (lying, making excuses for everything etc) presently..her period is 2.5 months late, she has a feeling she is pregnant, but STILL keeps partying! she is making excuses for not taking a test..such as, no money for one, "I will get one in a few days" etc. Her mother gave her money for one, and she used it towards smokes and beer!!!! I am sooo angry with her, but I don't know how to get through to her..if I even can?! She has a promiscuous personality, and is now spending a lot of time with a guy who also uses. In front of him she pretends to be just like him!! but it seems, shes a very good liar..and can pretend to be like anybody she is around. I tried to talk with her last night about it, she got defensive, so I stopped. Why is she doing this!!