You can be sober if you want to be. There's no magic answer for how to get there, but there are many recovery programmes available and SR is a fantastic source of support and understanding. If I can be sober, you can do it, too. The simple answer is to stop drinking... I know it isn't an easy thing to do at first but it gets easier as time goes on and the benefits you will feel after just a short period of time are endless.
Welcome to SR - it's a wonderful place and has been my lifeline. I hope you are ready to get sober soon, we will be behind you. I wish you all the best.