I'm so sorry this happened to you. Please don't believe what he tells you about yourself. He is obviously miserable and wants you to feel as miserable as he does. I'm glad you have your daughter. I have two children myself and they are what gets me through no matter what. I tell myself that even if everything in my life falls apart, I have reason to go on for my children's sake. Please avoid talking to him--he is dangerous to you and your well-being.