Krystal, your Strong i can't take credit for your deciding to post YOU did that on your own.
None of this, is easy keep working the program you wish he would work it works IF you work it no decision has to be made right now I am assuming there is no physical abuse when I say this. I do agree your kids need away as soon as possible I stayed way to long I thought his smoking pot was OK my original reason for joining here was my oldest son not my husband.
I am walking with you we all are.