Originally Posted by
outonalimb 
The thing is...it doesn't matter WHY the relationship is failing.
When it becomes harmful to you and your child, you don't need his permission or anyone's permission (including a marriage counselor) to walk away.
ah ha! now that hits the NAIL ON THE HEAD...thats all about validation...
now?...what do you want to do about all of this? I feel for you...because you know what you do have to do for you and your serenity...