I have been divorced almost 2 years now and still hurts, the betrayal but most of all that I wasted 17 years of my life waiting for him to change to stop drinking, to notice me, to love me.
My life now is sooooooo wonderful and new and better, I would of never..ever could imagine I can be so free and serene without him in my life, the cravings are so much less and weak that I can go on without even thinking about him almost all day.
No way I want to go back to the madness, maybe your DD can go to alateen, it will really help her.
Be strong, you can believe the promises of al-anon, they are TRUE.