Originally Posted by
Prisspot 
I have been to Al-anon meetings and they are very helpful. One of the best pieces of advice I got was that you have to look at who that person is presenting to you now, not who they were in the past, and decide if that's the person you want to be with.
He's a liar, a cheater and a thief. And if it were not for family friends he would be a convicted felon no different than the stripper. Surely you deserve better than this for a husband.
The thing about this is that it never had anything to do with you. It says all that can be said about his lack of character. He has shown you who he is. Believe him.