Hi Treadingwater:
First- BIG Momma Hugg
My two sons are homeless as of yesterday and it only took me 10 yrs of head banging, pleading, bargaining, $$$$$$$, replacing lost stuff, buying cars to provide transportation for jobs that never happened and damn near lost my sanity. All my love couldn't stop their maddness, so I had to stop mine.
Your sons actions are parrallel with my sons. Unfortunately I have not read one story of any parent saving their adult child from self destruction. Its so simple but so hard. We must transfer all that energy into begiinning our own path of recovery- that is how we make lemonaide out of lemons.
Iwill keep your son & your family in my prayers today