I'm working on the line between nice and doormat. I'm trying to stop NEEDING to be liked. If I can focus on being a GOOD person and ensure I always always stick to my beliefs, morals and boundaries, that's ok with me. Maybe I don't need everyone to like me, maybe I will get a lot more from being myself and being around people who KNOW me and still like me anyway. When I'm being 'nice' my own beliefs etc slide because I'm afraid of someone not liking me.