Originally Posted by
transformyself 
Awesome Alucard.
I've met with two lawyers, they're willing to work together to help me get divorced for free, but I still have to come up with the filing fees.
Amazingly, I've been gifted with two new jobs. Now to keep them coming in..
One thing I've seen, and I'm happy to hear others opinions here, especially men, but it seems that men married to A women have a lower tolerance for the BS. They cut loose and they're gone. They grieve, naturally, but it's a much shorter learning curve than I see the women (myself included) go through.
I'm not saying it's good or bad, just something I've observed based solely on the posts here.
This is true, especially with me....if I feel a woman is loyal to me, there is nothing I will not do for her, call it enabling, call it co-dependency, but I will give her my last dollar, will fight for her to my last drop of blood, will move heaven and earth to ensure she is happy. But for a woman who chooses another over me, whether male, female or alcohol or a drug, she will get served paperwork by a Deputy.