I think I already knew that would be the consensus. Who am I fooling thinking I could make it thru recovery with him...if he recovers. It has most certainly damaged the little trust that was beginning to build. I believe I would always question what he's doing/if he's using/if he's being about it. I told him I can't stand by & let him use & I wouldn't stand by if he lied about using. Not really many places left to go from there. Even if he initially quits, I know he could relapse any time & most likely will. I him I couldn't bear this burden for him. Thanks so much for the honest feedback. May not be wasn't I want to hear, but I can't bury my head & pretend there is no problem. I will continue my research & look into codependency, etc.
