Alucard

I'll say this much. You can stick around with the AH and deal with the BS that everyone on this site has dealt with for sooo long. The nights of guzzling booze, the fights, the boredom that the non alcoholic spouse deals with on a nightly basis as the drunk simply drinks, the dishonesty, the lies, the disgust, the unhappiness, for the rest of your time here on this Earth, until he goes into final stage Alcoholism, then you get to deal with his vomiting blood, passing messy stools, urinating the bed the tremors, the hallucinations, his liver failing, and wet brain syndrome/dementia, because if they dont stop, it inevitably and eventually gets to this point, after a number of years of hellish boredom, anxiety and stress on your part. You will have given up the best years of your life for it to end like that, and see a physically pathetic lost soul on a hospital bed, nearing the end, in a coma, and now you get to decide when to pull the plug and live with yourself.

OR.....See an attorney, leave his drunk (pseudonym for buttocks) and call this wonderful man and tell him you are going through a divorce and need his support....and begin what may be the relationship of your lifetime.

Only you can decide.