To those of you being dragged because you won't let go...
Read this:
Originally Posted by
djayr 
But I did it, I'm glad I did it, I am DELIGHTED to be legally and financially free from her despite the shockingly high cost which included all my cash, retirement, rental property, 50% of a house, and $3,000 per month payments for the next 64 months.
I am living in a one bedroom apartment. It is indeed my sanctuary.