Jen, his company usually needs to know by the end of July because of hotel and plane reservations. I'm pretty sure I'd have to decide soon. Of course, he may have already decided for us, lol, which I'm fine with.
Transform, yes the justified drinking was ridiculous. He did finally admit that I wasn't the one who bent his elbow. Unfortunately, I felt his admittance and apology was a bit late. The damage had already been done. I have been working on forgiveness mostly for my own benefit. Absolute. Insanity, that's what this is!