"He will find his way without any help, when he is ready. They are very resourceful.
Take care of you. Just keep repeating to yourself, "I am crippling him more if I keep advising or helping!."
I finally started saying to my son,"I love you, but cannot help you, as I am not a professional. You need professional help!""
Thank you Dev, those are my new words to my son and your post has inspired me today
Hugs
Teresa