My AH turned on me. I came between him and his drinking activities. I had expectations for a husband to want to spend time with me but he wants to do as he pleases. I complained one too many times about him being away from home. He turned on me in an instant and our relationship hasn't been the same since. His reasons for why "we can't work" changes daily and he constantly nitpicks everything I do or say. He needs to justify his actions. Alcoholics protect their addiction to the detriment of everything else.