I hate to say it and be a Debbie downer, but conversations don't do much. Whenever I have had what I think is a meaningful conversation with my AH, we always come back around to the same conversation over & over. I feel like the teachers in Peanuts - "mwah mwah mwah mwah mwah mwah" may as well be what's coming out of my mouth!
I also however know that it's hard to NOT want to have these conversations, to be heard, for things to be different. I've had two of these supposedly meaningful conversations this week alone.
If you want to talk to him to make yourself feel better so you can get some things off your chest and to establish boundaries clearly, that sounds like it may be helpful for you.
Hugs and strength to you.