Hi Jessie, I am sitting here holding back tears as I read your post. Same EXACT thing with me this weekend. Friday night was told by drunk AB that I should leave and I did. I was asked to leave because I stupidly mentioned maybe he might want to stop slammming the cocktails cause three little girls were in the motel room next to him. Silly me. I left, no big drama or blow up. Just said Ok and left. He tried calling twice on Saturday. I did not answer did not call him at all. That is the last I heard from him.
99 percent sure he is on a binge and will call again when he is done. We go through this all the time lately and I have had enough. Sadly, I feel that now. Can't honestly say what will happen if he tries contacting me again. I have the very same questions you do. The very same, and it kills me not to know. It's so sad to me. I'm heartbroken but optimistic I can remain with NC as long as he leaves me alone.