L2L, I'm glad you are considering going back! I did a year ago and it has meant so much! I know that it has given me a lot of strength, relieve and perspective, especially during these kinds of trials! As far as not having one's emotionl needs met with an A, that rings so true! I realize there is so much I didn't know for sure -- I never knew who I was dealing with!
Pink, thank you for the hugs and kind words!