i just wanted to add that sometimes at that moment with our GUT, we dont want to know...not that its denial...we, in our own heads, need to sort it out before we actually DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT...
i knew...i waited ....i sorted it out in my head first...talked to my dear friend...but I KNEW what i had to do....I found the right time (when he was out of the city)...
I did it...and still til this day, do not regret one thing that happened...
we work things out in our own time and pace....
now YOU KNOW