Originally Posted by
TCB5568 
his comment makes me want to prove him wrong because its just so wrong...Should I just call 911 if he gets the gun out again?
Yes on 911! Are you even allowed to be shooting guns where you live? A lot of communities don't allow guns to be discharged unless at a gun range or certain designated places.
Secondly, he is wrong. Why do you need to prove this to him? Do you think it matters to him what you think? Detachment and acceptance mean allowing him to be as wrong as he wants, while knowing he is wrong, without feeling the need to prove, defined, justify anything. It's the confidence knowing you are right regardless.
He is an active alcoholic. He doesn't care if you think he is wrong.