Eru,
have you looked at other programs for sobriety? rational recovery has worked well for me. you might start by reading this thread from the Secular Connections thread.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...iscussion.html
I hope you're getting some help from a good therapist or a trained professional to help with the other issues. I know the time I spent in therapy helped me sort things out and put them in a better place.
Hope this helps.
Love from Lenina