Oh honey, you don't have to run anything by him. He has NOTHING to offer, so your focus is, naturally, on you and your daughter. Just do the best thing for the two of you and let him swing. He is facing the consequences of HIS bad decisions and they are not your consequences. Keep moving forward and minimize any contact with him. He just wants you down in the same hole he has dug for himself. You and your daughter deserve better.
