If we support someone who refuses any kind of help or treatment and insists on remaining in their addictive lifestyle, what are we supporting?
This therapist sounds unfamiliar with addiction. We can love our addicts no matter how bad their lives get, but we don't have to take a front row seat and cheer them on when there is nothing to cheer.
I'm a mama too and I know your pain. The thing that helped me most was finding my own meetings and my own recovery. It was those things that saved my life.
Hugs