Thank you for checking in with your update! My AH will be sober 11 months soon so we're getting close to a year. (HP willing) We, separately & together, are still struggling to define a new balance in our relationship. Some days are great, some days seem impossible. I'm especially struggling with rebuilding trust. I understand now why some couples have too much damage to put things back together, or benefit from separation while each party focuses on their individual therapy.
If you have have any specific tools that helped you get through this, I'd love to hear about them!